Showing posts with label Goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Goals. Show all posts

Monday, 5 October 2009

Tattoo on Friday...

I went to have my back tattoo finished on Friday. It is all done now in my back, well I think it is anyway :-). Anyway, when I was "under the needle" so to speak, and enduring a bit of pain in the muscle areas had a couple of thoughts that I would like to share today.

First an advice...

If you do have a tattoo done, being too lean is a hindrance... The areas that hurt the most were on my traps, which are pure muscle, whilst the areas that were fine and less painful, and strangely pleasurable, were actually over the bone, which is usually an area that most people don't enjoy...

The other is to do with pain & pleasure

As you know, I firmly believe that pain and pleasure is the principle that rules all of our lives, we either spend our time avoiding pain or seeking pleasure. And it can be argued that the successful people in life are the ones that are prepared to endure the perceived potential pain of doing something because the pleasure at the end is worthwhile!

And tattoos are the perfect example

When you decide to do a tattoo, you know that there will be pain in the process, but the pleasure of having your tattoo done, is, in your eyes, worth the pain. So you endure the pain and you go for it "all guns blazing" because you truly want your pleasure at the end.

Same applies with cosmetic surgery

I haven't had cosmetic surgery but I would venture my opinion that the people that do it, do it due to the pain that they endure from whatever area they are not happy with in their bodies at that moment and because of the enormous perceived pleasure they will have about themselves once the treatment is done.

We can delve deeper into the psychologic ramifications of the process, but at a basic simple level is all about pain and pleasure. In this case there is two different kinds of pain; the one you endure at the moment from not being happy with yourself and the one from the surgery itself!

And because you want the pleasure at the end hard enough and you want to get rid of the current pain you are experiencing you will endure the surgery, the pain from it and also the pain from the recovery process to experience the pleasure of feeling better about your body!

Losing weight is in the same boat

When you embark on a "weight loss" quest, you know from the start that there will be some pain and some challenges ahead, but you persevere throughout because you really want the pleasure of having a fantastic toned body at the end. It is all about pain and pleasure and how much you really want the pleasure!

Whatever goal you have

Always remember, there will be pain along the way, there will be challenges, obstacles, problems and difficult situations, but if your goal is big enough, powerful enough and important enough to you, then you will be able to endure all that life "throws" at you and achieve your goal and enjoy the pleasure at the end!

Have a brilliant day!

Speak soon,

Paulo

x

Wednesday, 12 August 2009

A special second

I was listening to the radio the other day whilst driving in Portugal, and the radio dj mentioned that the next day it was going to be very special, with an occurrence happening that would not repeat itself for more than a century. This occurrence was a special second...

12 hours, 34 minutes, 56 seconds of the 7th of August 2009

That was the second, the only time for more than 100 years that all the numbers were in sequence 123456789!!! That got me thinking, sure that second was unique and special because of that but surely all our seconds are unique and special!!!

Are your seconds special?

My question to you today is, are all your seconds special? Are you making the most out of your seconds to ensure that they mean something to your life? Or are you simply wasting those seconds away wishing for them to be special?

Well, I have news for you...

It all depends on only one person... YOU. You are the only person that can ensure that your seconds, minutes, hours and days are special by taking action on whatever your goals are. Don't just sit back and complain about how difficult or hard your life may be, do something about instead!

If you do then they will be special!

If you take action and every thing you do to occupy your seconds gets you that extra step closer to your goal then every single second will be special. If you mop around than guess what, all will remain as bad as it might be today.

I have a final question for you...

What are you going to do today to make your seconds special and make them count? I am going to go to the gym later this afternoon and then continue working on my new project. How about you?

Looking forward to read what your plans are.

Have a brilliant day.

Speak soon,

Paulo